Here is my 10Q question and answer for Day 3.
Q. Think about a major milestone that happened with your family this past year. How has this affected you?
A. In the spring my daughter-in-law Tamara's parents moved from Seattle to Huntington Beach, only about a half hour drive away. This means our son Ari's children have both grandparents and a set of great-grandparents in So Calif. So we will see much more of them, especially in the summer. It also means they won't have to stay the entire time at our house each visit but can bounce around between the three houses. I'm so happy that I'll be seeing our AZ grandkids a lot more, especially now that they're old enough to remember us.
I didn't post over Rosh Hashana and Shabbat, so here is my 10Q entry for Day 2.
Q. Is there something that you wish you had done differently this past year? Alternatively, is there something you're especially proud of from this past year?
A. I am especially proud of how I have greatly increased how much I exercise. For the last twelve months, since my daughter bought me a gym membership, I have been working out with weights twice a week [when not on book tour]. I can see how much stronger I am, and that my clothes fit better though I haven't lost any weight.
In addition, I started playing Pokemon Go a year ago with my grandchildren, with the result that while they have dropped out, I have walked over 1000 miles [1732 kilometers actually] in 8 states and 2 countries pursuing, and eventually capturing, these imaginary creatures.
L' Shana Tova. This time I have a better excuse for not blogging until today: I am the new Ritual Chair for my synagogue and as you can imagine, the last 6 weeks have been crunch time. Between making sure all High Holy Day ducks are lined up in a row, Iím particularly responsible for our lay-led second day Rosh Hashana services. At the same time Iím finalizing arrangements for a fall book tour to the Midwest that starts Oct 14 [see this link for details].
To make up for this long absence Iím going to try to share my 10Q questions and answers this year in ten posts, or at least those that arenít too sensitive. The questions are the same every year [the Jewish year 5777] and it can be amazing to see what I wrote in previous years. So here goes with the first question and my answer. Q: Describe a significant experience that has happened in the past year. How did it affect you? Are you grateful? Relieved? Resentful? Inspired?
A: Unfortunately, my answer will probably be similar to many others doing 10Q this year, in that last year's significant experience was Donald Trump being elected president. My immediate reaction was shock, outrage, and deep dismay. I'd worked hard for Hilary Clinton and was led to believe she'd win.
Today I am angry and discouraged in addition to the feelings above. I have given up reading anything political on FaceBook or Twitter because I know I can't trust it, and am skeptical even of mainstream media. I am horrified at the increasing prominence of neo-Nazis and the alt-right. Still, I refuse to give up. I have marched for women and Planned Parenthood, and against denying climate change. I try to keep up with whatís really happening in Washington, especially with healthcare and the environment.
I am now back from 9 days in Colorado and have caught up with most of the chores that piled up when I was gone, even more in this case because Dave and I were both away. Several people have asked how it was in Vail, and would I recommend a vacation there, so here is a summary of our trip.
Vail is a tourist town, a ski resort 100 miles west of Denver created in the mid 1960ís. Its cobblestone streets and faux Bavarian architecture reminded me of Disneyland near the bobsled ride. The Jewish community in Vail is larger than I would have thought for a city with an official population of merely 5500. But that doesnít count the thousands of visitors, and perhaps not the part-time inhabitants. Most of the wealthiest Jews of Vail also have homes elsewhere, especially the summer residents from Texas and Florida. Summer is as popular, or more, than ski season, and the streets were crowded with families, many speaking foreign languages.
Nestled along the Gore Creek and surrounded by mountains, Vailís alpine scenery is beautiful. My husband and I planned to fill each day with outdoor pursuits: hiking, biking, white-water rafting. But the 8000 ft elevation was a problem for me, who lives literally at sea level. It took me 4 days of limiting myself to activities around town to get over the worst of my altitude sickness before we tackled the higher elevations. But I persevered and it was worth it.
There were several pleasant local trails along the creeks, but for me our trip had several highlights. 1] A 3/4-day raft trip down the Colorado River through the magnificent Glenwood Canyon, which included several class 2 and 3 rapids. 2] A 4-mile hike up Shrine Pass that took us through meadows of gorgeous varieties of wildflowers before reaching a ridge that provided fabulous views of the surrounding peaks. A truly breath-taking, in both meanings, hike [see my web blog for photos]. 3] A 25-mile bicycle ride around Dillon Lake [water reservoir for Denver], interrupted by two short hail storms. Summer weather in the Colorado Rockies is notorious for sunny or party cloudy mornings followed by intermittent thunderstorms that clear by evening. 4] Shabbat morning services with music provided by Jewish bluegrass band Nefesh Mountain at Eagle Nest. A standing-room only crowd of several hundred prayed and sang together in a service that was awesome in the original sense of the word, especially doing Esa Einai atop Vail Mountain [11,500 ft elevation]. Watch the video, and more, on the bandís website
I recently got a Google alert about a blog that mentioned one of my books. The blogger is purple-haired Tamara Craiu, a "bespectacled, queer Jewish millennial lady with a moon tan and dang proud of it, who is waiting for her moment to destroy an elitist, sexist male nerd with her vast Star Trek and comic knowledge." The post that alerted me [see link to website below] is titled "Books with Jewish Protagonists that are NOT set in WW2." I confess that I too try to avoid reading books about the Holocaust, unless they come at it from a brand new angle, which is highly unlikely after 75 years.
Reading through Tamara's list, I found plenty that interested me, and I think my readers will find some to like as well. Including "Apprentice", the first volume of my "Rav Hisda's Daughter" series, Iíve read eight of her Historical Fiction recommendations and I second her endorsements. As one might expect from a queer book blog, there are lots of LGBT novels in the Contemporary section and plenty more on the subject in Non-Fiction as well.
There are lots of intriguing novels with SciFi, Fantasy and Dystopian themes in the YA section, followed by a minyan of books in the following group devoted to the topic ["The Dyke and the Dybbuk" or "Jews vs. Aliens" anyone?]. I was thrilled to find my very favorite novel ["He, She and It" by Marge Piercy] among the latter. Last are half a dozen graphic novels, one of which, "The Rabbiís Cat", Iíve both read and seen the animated movie.
To see the complete list click on this link
Back to my original subject: why I haven't been blogging so much. The main reason, and I guess the best, is that Iíve started writing my new historical novel. And when I write the first draft I need a minimum of two hours of uninterrupted time to complete a scene; otherwise I'll stay awake at night thinking about it. I mean actually writing, as opposed to outlining and researching. Not that Iíve stopped outlining and researching, which Iíll continue to do until the book is finished. Iím on the last scene of chapter four, out of what I plan to be a thirty-chapter novel. I plan each chapter to contain approximately 5000 words, although that will certainly change.
You may note that I have not revealed the novel's title, location or time period. Rest assured I know these details, but I don't have a contract for this book and the lawyers at Penguin advise me to say nothing about it until I do. At this point the book's future is somewhat nebulous, because Penguin has merged with Random House and my previous house editor has moved on. So while my current contract says that Penguin has rights of first refusal to my future fiction, I would have to find a new publisher if they donít want it Ė at which point Random Penguin could step in and say they do want it. Oh well, thatís what literary agents are for, and thankfully I still work with the same one.
What I can tell you is that the story involves women and Talmud study, no surprise there. Of course there is romance and a happy ending as well. It is set in 20th century America, and while most scenes take place within a two-year period, there is also a significant backstory about the protagonistsí parents. As you can imagine, the research involved is more complicated than my previous works. Easier because there is a great deal of information available, much of it literally at my fingertips on my computer. Difficult because of the tremendous amount of information, more than I could sift through in a lifetime. Tricky because there are people alive who would know personally if what I write is incorrect.
I hope to blog weekly while Iím writing the new book, just to keep in touch. Iíll end with a car update. Iím enjoining the Niro and have discovered a couple of cool touches. Very nice that my fanny-pack fits in the center console; I've never driven a car with a specific place I could put my purse, a complaint many women have about car design. Also nice that there is another compartment in the cargo area between the spare tire area below and the carpeted "floor" above. I discovered this hidden area, which is divided into smaller sections, while looking for the spare tire. Perfect storage for towels, tennis shoes, water cartons, a rain jacket, and other items I might need in an emergency. Best thing so far is that the hybrid really does save gas; I've driven 300 miles so far and still have well over half a tank left.
Here is part two of my new car search. We subscribe to Consumer Reports and April is the car issue, so I quickly checked their rankings. Check-rated subcompact SUVís were Subaru Crosstrek, Honda HRV, and Mazda CX3, all three of which would fit in my garage. Unfortunately the Kia Niro was too new and hadnít been tested yet. Among the compact SUVís, the Kia Sportage was the only model that was both check-rated and fit in the garage. Goodbye Toyotaís RAV4 and Subaru Forester.
This month's Consumer Reports had a useful article on all the new advanced safety features, with daunting acronyms like FCW, AEB, ACC, BSW and RCTW. The Subaru website let me compare specs on up to 4 cars, at which point I discovered that the HRV doesnít come with any of these safety features, not even as an option. Our family has driven only Hondas for almost 30 years, but I would now be buying something else.
The Kia Niro test-drive came first, mainly because I really liked the idea of driving a hybrid and not having to buy so much gas. The EX model, whose optional safety package included all the ones Consumer Reports recommended, tested out fine, although there were a few disappointments [only driverís seat had power adjusting, no way to open hatch door from inside, dark interior]. The Sportage also drove well, but it cost more and got worse gas mileage than the Niro so out it went.
Next was Subaru, where the Crosstrek driverís seat was so uncomfortable that I didnít even bother to drive it. The salesman encouraged me to try the Forester, which was Consumer Report top pick, so I did. The seat didnít hurt my back/neck and the test-drive went so well that we chalked out how it would fit in the garage when we got home, and my original conclusions were sadly confirmed. Plus its gas mileage was about half what the hybrid Kia got. Off to the Mazda dealer, where I knew from our chalk marks that the CX-5 would be too big, so it was down to the CX-3. This one test-drove okay, but the driverís seat could only be adjusted manually, which made it not as comfortable as the Kia's. Another drawback was that the cargo area behind the back seat was only 12.4 cu ft while the Kiaís held 44 cu ft. I liked that the Mazda offered cream-colored upholstery, cooler to sit on; every other carís interior was either black or dark grey. But none of its good points could outweigh its crummy storage area and comparatively poor gas mileage.
Bottom line: we bought the Kia Niro [pronounced "nilo" in Korea] with optional advanced technology package. Hereís the LA Times review.
Another activity that has kept me busy recently, one only peripherally related to Judaism or my book biz, is deciding to buy a new car. For years my family has been urging me to replace my 1994 Honda Civic, also known as Bubbiís piŮata car because of its many dings outside and goodies inside. But it only has a little over 150,000 miles on it and still gets 35 mpg, so whatís the hurry? In the past I drove a car until somebody crashed into it and the insurance company declared it totaled, at which time I would quickly replace it with a new model. Of course as my cars grew older it didnít take much more than a fender bender to ďtotalĒ them, which is what I assumed would eventually happen to my Civic. But it didnít.
I started thinking about a new car after my husband passed his 2005 Accord on to our son and got a 2014 model. I saw firsthand how auto technology had improved, not only that he could play podcasts from his iPhone via the carís audio system, but also the impressive new safety features. Slowly but surely, when I had to drive more than 60 miles to a book talk, especially at night, I drove his car. I didnít mind too much when my Civicís radio sometimes cut out, but then it began needing expensive repairs: replacing a cracked radiator in 2015 and the rack & pinion assembly in 2016.
I got further encouragement from the media. Consumer Reports wrote how the new small SUVís were becoming popular among seniors because the higher seat both gave drivers a better view of the road and was easier to get into. Plus the hatchback saves your back from bending over to get heavy stuff out of a trunk; important for someone often shlepping 30-pound boxes of books. Then the LA Times favorably reviewed the new Kia Niro, a small SUV hybrid that got 50 mpg. After measuring what size car would fit in my garage, I decided to test-drive models from several manufacturers, something Iíd never had the leisure to do before. Iíll detail the test-drives and how I made my decision in my next post.
Besides preparing to lead services, Iíve been busy organizing three upcoming book tours. Iíve been working on a 2-week October trip to Chicago since March, plus a weeklong Texas trip in November since May. I have to start that early because many Jewish groups plan their entire yearís calendar in the preceding spring. When no one organization in Chicago stepped up to pay my airfare, I figured that if I got 10 different groups to invite me, then it shouldnít cost each one more than $30. Thankfully I have a good friend there who is happy to host me, so I donít have to arrange different lodging for each night like Iíll need to do in Texas. But at least the Texas venues have no problem paying my travel expenses.
Many people have asked who sets up my book tours and are both astonished and impressed when I reply that I do it myself. Yes, it is time consuming, but I donít trust anyone else to do it right. I start by searching my emails that are labeled Ďspeakingí to see where I spoke in a particular community in the past. I send each of these contacts an email announcing that Iím coming to their city at certain time and ask would they like me to do a program for them while Iím there. Next I search my emails labeled Ďpotential gigí to find groups who asked me to speak, but for some reason it didnít work out. I send them a similar email. I ask all of these to let other Jewish groups know that Iím planning a book tour.
A few venues reply quickly and, since the early birds get the worms, they get to pick their preferred dates/times. Some reply that theyíre interested but need to get approval, and sadly, a few say theyíre not interested. For my Texas tour, I was able to finalize the entire trip from that first batch of emails. However, I needed to send out a second round of emails after Passover to those in Chicago who hadnít chosen a date or rejected me, letting them know which dates were still available and urging them to make their decision soon. Eventually most of the available dates were spoken for, and those who contact me now have to be very flexible. In case youíre reading this post and live in the Chicago area, the only dates still available are Oct 15, 22 [afternoon or evening], or 25.
My third book tour is to Colorado at the end of July. This came about quickly with an email out of the blue from the rabbi of Bínai Vail, inviting me to speak there with all expenses paid. In addition the rabbis put me in touch with some other synagogues along Interstate 70, and they asked me to speak to their congregations as well. My husband rarely accompanies me on book tours, although he has joined me for a vacation on occasion when my trip is over in an especially nice area. Which is how we came to spend a week driving the Blue Ridge Parkway in North Carolina, a week snorkeling in the US Virgin Islands, and a week celebrating my 65th birthday at Mardi Gras in New Orleans. This summer weíll be staying a week in Vail and doing day trips to surrounding cities like Aspen and Evergreen - hiking, biking and river rafting in the scenic Colorado Rockies.
For details on my upcoming schedule see my website
I have several good reasons for not having blogged for three weeks. Iíll try to devote a blog post to each of them, saving the best for last. First, the rabbi at my congregation, Beth Chayim Chadashim in Los Angeles, is going on a 3-month sabbatical, so I volunteered to be one of several lay folks to lead services during her absence on July 7.
The first thing I did was check the Torah portion for that week, which turned out to be Balak. You know, the one in Numbers with the pagan sorcerer who tries to curse Israel but can only bless instead and his talking donkey. I figured this would be a perfect opportunity to drash about sorcery in ancient Judaism, a subject in which I have some expertise.
To my delight, I learned that a new book on the subject, Jewish Magic before the Rise of Kabbalah by Yuval Harari, has just been translated into English. His book focuses on magic in the Second Temple and Rabbinic era as well as Heikhalot literature, Geonim and Karaite writings. I was thrilled to discover a wonderful interview with the author about his work. Iím including a few of his quotes here, followed by a link to the complete interview.
Harari begins by stating, ďThe Talmud is chock-full of magic and ways to ward off demons Ö Most ignore this topic because Modern Jews feel they have evolved beyond the past and Orthodox Jews ignore it because they cherry pick this material out as folklore or the ideas of the common people irrelevant to the their reading of the halakhic project.Ē Another quote I appreciate is, "the term 'magicí'is problematic, because it has generally been used to describe the religious and ritual practices of people whom the speaker disapproves of. In the sense that what I do is ritual, but what other people do is magic or idolatry."
But Harari does note that the purpose of ancient Jewish magic was not to become a wizard in the Harry Potter sense, but rather as pragmatic actions for specific practical goals such as healing or preventing illness or other misfortunes. He also notes that, "Jewish magic assumes that God gave us this power to do magic, just as He gave us the ability to farm or heal as doctors, and therefore it does not detract from Godís providence."
For the complete interview, click on this link.
Many Jewish organizations sponsor a Community Read where a group of people all read one book over a specific period of time. Often there are times when readers get together for discussions. I think the first volume of "Rashiís Daughters" is especially appropriate for such a program, but the challenge for me of getting it, or any of my novels, chosen is twofold. First, most of these Community Reads are not well publicized outside of their local areas, and thus I am not even aware of how to make a nomination. Then, my book has to win out over the competition. Thus, in the few Jewish places where I heard of these projects, my attempts to pitch my novels have proved unsuccessful.
Imagine my pleased surprise when I got a Google Alert that "Rav Hisdaís Daughter" had been chosen for the ďOne Book, One Community, One SummerĒ read by Congregation Ohev Shalom in Maitland, FL. They will be reading and discussing my novel, five chapters every two weeks, starting June 10 and concluding August 17. I promptly emailed Ohev Shalomís rabbi about the possibility of my skyping with them, and he responded positively. I love the idea of engaging with readers who have dived so deeply into my book. I hope I will be able to do it.
For more about the program, check out this link.
I am increasing impressed, as well as amused, by the large number of National Something-or-Other months or weeks. I just learned, courtesy of an article in AARPís newsletter, that June is National Bathroom Reading Month. While this is not on any official government list [who knew there were such official lists?], I am happy to publicize it since my new book is a perfect bathroom companion.
What criteria does this entail? In my opinion the ideal bathroom book should be entertaining light reading, non-narrative [i.e. no plot or characters to follow], and consist of a series of pithy sections that need not be read in order. Thus readers can open to any page and spend as little or as much time as needed.
In my humble opinion, "Fifty Shades of Talmud: What the First Rabbis Had to Say about You-Know-What" meets these criteria. Plus it has an additional advantage of being less than 120 pages so it doesnít take up much room if you want to keep a copy in your bathroom permanently. Another book to consider for your bathroom bookshelf is 53-page "Jewish Wit and Wisdom", edited by Herb Galewitz. I found this little gem in a hostís bathroom while on book tour. Here is a link to learn more about National Bathroom Reading Month.